Have you ever lost something (a material possession) that was so valuable to you that you actually grieved over it? Well, the past week while in Perth, Western Australia visiting a couple of churches and fellow MTW missionaries, Jim's laptop was stolen along with his pda, his cell phone, our car and house keys, our passports, and his favorite Bible (they were all in one bag). We were devastated to say the least!
I don't know about the other items that were lost, but Jim went through the five different stages of grief within 24 hours from the incident over the loss of his laptop:
1) Shock and denial – someone broke the driver’s side window of our parked car (borrowed from a church member), popped open the trunk and took the laptop bag! He couldn’t believe it!
2) Anger – Need I explain.
3) Bargaining – Jim was thinking “If only the thief could return at least my laptop…”
4) Depression – He was not himself. He never gets depressed!
5) Acceptance – The next morning he was better. He’s the type of person that does not dwell in the past but moves forward. Actually, the minute he saw that the bag was gone, he was already thinking and planning on what to do next.
It’s not much the loss of the laptop itself that made him upset, but the contents in it. He used it to work on a lot of stuff for many years. I think he had most of its content saved on hard drive, but still… there was a lot of personal stuff, ministry work, etc in it. So, we spent the next few days changing passwords on all our personal info that was managed online. We went to the
On the bright side, we were sharing this with the host couple the night of the incident and the guy said “Maybe the person who took your bag will use Jim’s Bible to read God’s Word and come to know Christ.” We agreed and prayed for him/her.











